Arie Luyendyk Jr., a contestant on The Bachelor, revealed during an Instagram Q&A that he regrets getting a vasectomy a year ago after being asked if he and his wife, Lauren Burnham, want more children. The couple already has a daughter, Alessi, and twins, Senna and Lux. They met on season 22 of The Bachelor in 2017, where Luyendyk initially chose Becca Kufrin but later proposed to Burnham during the live After the Final Rose special in March 2018.
In a vlog from February 2022, the couple shared details of Luyendyk’s vasectomy experience. Burnham described him as looking pale and thought he might faint during the procedure, which Luyendyk called “awful”, comparing the feeling to being kicked hard in the groin. Burnham decided it was Luyendyk’s “turn” to make a sacrifice since she experienced mild depression from hormonal birth control. Although she initially believed the vasectomy was the right decision, she later admitted to Us Weekly that she wasn’t ready to completely close the door on expanding their family and might want another child in the future.
Luyendyk mentioned that vasectomies are reversible if they change their minds in the future. Despite having three young children under the age of 3, Burnham mentioned that once they are out of that stage, she might consider having another child. Luyendyk frequently shares glimpses of his life as a father on social media, including a recent post about his “first daddy/daughter trip” with Senna, which he described as a sweet experience. He also posted a video of Lux and Senna in which he lamented how quickly they are growing up, urging others to cherish the moments with their children.
Luyendyk’s expression of regret over his vasectomy decision sparked responses from fans and followers on social media. Many shared their own experiences with vasectomies and reversals, offering support and advice to the couple. Some suggested that Luyendyk and Burnham explore their options for reversing the vasectomy, while others commended them for being open about their feelings and decisions regarding their family planning. The couple’s candidness about their journey towards expanding their family resonated with many, who appreciated their honesty and vulnerability.
As Bachelor Nation fans continue to follow Luyendyk and Burnham’s journey, the couple’s openness about their desire for more children has generated discussion and speculation. Some are curious about whether they will pursue a vasectomy reversal in the future, while others admire their commitment to their family and willingness to share their experiences with their followers. The support and encouragement from fans and followers further highlights the impact of the couple’s honesty and vulnerability in navigating the complexities of parenthood and family planning in the public eye. As Luyendyk and Burnham navigate their journey towards potentially expanding their family, their transparency continues to resonate with audiences who appreciate their candid approach to sharing their experiences and decisions.
