In the midst of ongoing conflict between Israel and Hamas, Passover Seders this year took on a somber tone as families and groups across the country gathered to commemorate the holiday. With war in Gaza at the forefront of many minds, hosts and attendees grappled with the delicate balance of acknowledging current events while upholding traditional rituals. Dining chairs were left empty in remembrance of hostages, guest lists were adjusted to avoid conflict, and prayers took on new meanings in the shadow of the ongoing violence. The typically festive holiday felt different, with many feeling the weight of the conflict on their hearts as they gathered to celebrate.
Some hosts, like Rabbi Susan Goldberg of Nefesh in Los Angeles, saw the Seder table as a platform for much-needed dialogue about the conflict. Themes of freedom and captivity sparked discussion about the hostages and those in Gaza suffering, prompting reflection and conversation amongst guests. However, dialogue around such contentious topics proved challenging for some, with tensions rising among hosts, guests, and even family members who held differing opinions on the conflict. Navigating these discussions required sensitivity and open-mindedness from all involved.
While some families chose to focus on the traditional customs and rituals of the holiday as a form of escape from the current political climate, others chose to modify their traditions to address the extraordinary circumstances of the conflict. From reading the names of hostages at the Seder table to setting up symbolic place settings to remember those affected by the war, hosts found ways to honor and remember those impacted by the conflict. These adjustments served as reminders of the ongoing suffering and the importance of not forgetting those caught in the crossfire.
Generational divides also played out at many Seders, with younger and older guests often holding differing views on the conflict. In some instances, heated debates arose between family members, highlighting the complexity of discussing such contentious issues within the context of a religious holiday. However, these disagreements also provided opportunities for learning, growth, and mutual respect, as participants engaged in meaningful discussions about oppression, peace, and freedom. The varying opinions and perspectives reflected the diversity of thought within the Jewish community and the importance of dialogue in times of conflict.
For many hosts and attendees, this year’s Passover Seders served as a powerful reminder of the interconnectedness of tradition, faith, and current events. Overcoming discomfort, navigating disagreements, and finding common ground emerged as key themes at Seders across the country. As families and friends came together to celebrate the holiday, they grappled with the complexities of addressing the conflict while upholding the values and rituals that define the Passover celebration. Through dialogue, reflection, and adaptation, participants sought to honor the spirit of the holiday while acknowledging the somber reality of the ongoing conflict in the Middle East.
