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Shortly after he was honorably discharged for an injury in 2014, Marine combat veteran Cole Lyle, who resides in Alexandria, Virginia, found himself at what he termed “a pretty low place.”
He was in the midst of a divorce, was unemployed, wasn’t in school — and “felt disconnected from the guys I had served with,” he said.
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He perceived that his family did not understand what he was going through, he said. He was coping with post-traumatic stress as well as panic attacks.
“I was, admittedly, drinking too much,” he told Fox News Digital in a phone interview. “I had a gun, and was about one pound of trigger pull away from shooting myself in the head.”
Before that awful act could take place, a fellow Marine showed up at the door with some movies and food — and sat with Lyle for the rest of the night, he said.
The next morning, Lyle said he awoke feeling “very clear” — and with a renewed sense of purpose.
“The only thing I can really attribute [it] to is divine intervention, because I was clearer than I had been in a long time,” he said.
“My focus went from, ‘Why do I have nothing?’ to ‘I have the opportunity to do anything.'”
“The only thing I can really attribute [it] to is divine intervention, because I was clearer than I had been in a long time.”
Lyle turned his renewed purpose into action.
Today he works to help other veterans who are feeling hopeless by serving as executive director of Mission Roll Call and using its message of advocacy to make change.
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Lyle formerly worked at the U.S. Dept. of Veterans Affairs (VA) as well as the American Legion and other veterans organizations for years. He joined Mission Roll Call, headquartered in Augusta, Georgia, in Oct. 2021.
“Our goal is suicide prevention, and we do that by advocating to Congress, advocating to the White House and to the VA for policies that would improve the quality of life for veterans and ultimately lower the suicide rate,” he said.
Quality of life for veterans is key
Said Lyle, “Right now, the VA’s statistics [are that] 17 veterans a day are taking their lives — which is 6,205 a year. It’s way too many.”
The number of veteran suicides could be far higher, with one study showing that the rate of suicide among veterans could be as much as 37% higher than the numbers reported by the VA, as Fox News Digital previously reported.
The removal of troops from Afghanistan in August 2021 “exacerbated” the existing mental health issues of many of Lyle’s friends.
The transition for a veteran away from a chain of military command and into civilian life can trigger a mental health crisis, Lyle said, underscoring that civilians largely do not understand what veterans have experienced.
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Lyle aims to expand Mission Roll Call’s reach to veterans across the country.
The group includes vets in its process. The group sends out short surveys and polls to them via the organization’s email and texting list to gauge interest and popularity around potential advocacy items — letting the veterans themselves weigh in on the issues.
“The best way to tackle [the issue of suicide and mental health] is by advocating for policies to improve the quality of life for all veterans,” Lyle said, “whether or not they’re using VA — whether or not they’re engaged with a local veteran service organization that’s providing those direct services.”
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He added, “Only 50% of veterans in the country — of the 18 million-plus veterans in the country — use the VA. So there’s half the population that’s not engaging with them at all, or [with] a veteran service organization.”
In Lyle’s opinion, the VA needs to “fundamentally change” the way it combats the issue of veteran suicide by taking a more holistic approach to address the problem, he said.
Lyle said that the VA is viewing the suicide epidemic “primarily through the lens of mental health.”
New approach to a pressing issue
“I think that is a reactionary and failed approach,” said Lyle.
“If you look at the status quo and the amount of money that the VA has put into it over the last four years — it’s just not working,” he added.
Preventing veteran suicide also requires collaboration among the VA, various branches of the military and the Department of Defense (DoD), he said.
“[Veterans were] questioning, ‘What was it for?’ and I could see the writing on the wall.”
“There needs to be more collaboration between those two agencies to effectively address this problem. Because they haven’t done so, and they haven’t really worked well together,” he said.
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“The [Department of Defense] and the VA need to be much more proactive in how they address this issue,” he said.
Fox News Digital reached out to both the VA and the DoD for comment.
“The purpose of VA’s National Suicide Prevention report is to count every veteran suicide so we can prevent every veteran suicide,” said Joe Williams, a public affairs specialist at the Department of Veteran Affairs, in a statement provided to Fox News Digital.
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He also said, “Ending veteran suicide and saving lives is our top clinical priority at VA, and we take every step possible to make sure that our veteran suicide data is accurate — because the first step to solving this problem is understanding it.”
Williams added, “The bottom line is this: One veteran suicide is one too many, and VA will continue to accurately measure veteran suicide so we can end veteran suicide.”
The DoD also responded.
“We work very well together with the VA and have significant synergies and joint efforts in suicide prevention,” Maj. Charlie Dietz, DoD spokesman, said to Fox News Digital in a statement.
Dietz listed ways the two organizations work together, including the Hannon Act, for sections 101 and 102; the Suicide Data Repository and the Veterans Crisis Line/Military Crisis Line; and 9-8-8 efforts.
“Additionally, DoD and VA collaborate on federal-wide committees and groups, such as the National Action Alliance for Suicide Prevention, the Federal Working group for suicide prevention [and] the Interagency Task Force for Military and Veteran Suicide,” Dietz said.
Lyle responded to this feedback, noting that while it’s “great” that the VA is working with the Department of Defense, he feels it’s coming up short in the real world.
“I was, admittedly, drinking too much. I had a gun, and was about one pound of trigger pull away from shooting myself in the head.”
“If you talk to any separated service member, the DoD and the VA still have a lot of joint work to do on meaningful transition assistance and electronic health record management, to make reintegration into civilian life as seamless as possible — and hopefully decrease the rate of veteran suicide,” he said.
Reaction to the 2021 withdrawal from Afghanistan
Lyle said that the removal of troops from Afghanistan in August 2021 “exacerbated” the existing mental health issues of many of his friends.
Many were considering suicide, he said.
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“[They were] questioning, ‘What was it for?’ and I could see the writing on the wall,” he said.
“And then the opportunity with Mission Roll Call came up.”
Lyle himself has a unique approach for dealing with his own mental health challenges: He has a German shepherd service dog.
In 2015, Lyle teamed up with Kaya, who was trained to assist with Lyle’s post-traumatic stress.
Kaya “was trained to wake me up from nightmares and do what’s called ‘animal-assisted intervention’ when I was having anxiety attacks,” he said.
“That was hugely helpful for me,” he revealed.
There is strength in community, according to Lyle.
“I think the more you empower community organizations to go find veterans and to work with them, and create those connections that they lost after they transitioned out of the military — I think that’s a realistic and effective path to order,” he said.
Source: Fox News